About Sola Love

I am passionate about the power of our erotic-sensual nature, about connecting to your vibrant core, and about authentic self expression. My intention is to nurture sensual experience, to explore the human capacity for joy and pleasure, to love life deeply and unconditionally, and to be fully present for myself as well as with others. Being able to offer myself and my time as I do is a great blessings in my life. This is my chosen vocation, my path, my art and my craft. My highly regarded reputation has been built on the attention, professionalism and discretion that I provide along with the quality of my services. Don’t misunderstand – as serious as I am about my “work” I consider this all wonderful play!

My life has had many interesting twists and turns… from punk rock waitress to hospital administration, to festival following hippie, to corporate business management and now I’m right here! I’m equally at home at an open-mike night in a local tavern as I am at the symphony or a swingers’ club. I am a city girl at heart, yet, I require rejuvenating trips to revel in the natural beauty of the forest, mountains, ocean, hot springs and desert. You will find me easy going, non-judgmental and able to meet you wherever you are in your life, engaging and comfortable to share time with.

In “real life” my self-care and personal enrichment are priorities. Cultivating my ideal of right-living helps to ensure that there is more “me” for you. Most of my hours are spent playing with my puppy, sweating at yoga and pilates, meditating, caring for Sanctuary (my studio), performing the back-end details of being a self-employed business woman, visiting family and friends, reading a book, studying, daydreaming under a tree… I take frequent short vacations to maintain my vitality and enthusiasm, often using long weekends to pursue information and experience relating to sexuality and healing arts and attending related conferences. This year my time has is prioritized around my studies of Nuat Boran (traditional Thai massage), Mindfulness Therapies and earning a Clinical Sexology certification.

Life is busy and I’m happy to free up time to relax and to enjoy YOU!

Who? What? Why?

I welcome into my Sanctuary guests of any age (21+), gender, physical ability, sexual orientation or relationship status. If you require special accommodation or have significant allergies please tell me in advance. My desire is to encourage healthy and fulfilling relationships. If you are in relationship I would be honored to meet your partner.

YES – I welcome men, women and couples!

Those who seek sensual service have many reasons. Seekers desire to be free from guilt, shame, fear, social conditioning and judgment around their sexuality. They may wish to use their creative life force for greater awareness, healing, aliveness, joy, love and creativity. They are searching for many different things.

* A soothing soft voice and gentle hands, a space to relax away from the chaos of the day to day

* Sensual connection and loving touch

* A broader relationship and understanding of their sexuality

* Permission and space to expand capacity for pleasure and ecstasy

* A willing partner with which to try something “new”

* Technique and skills to increase physical and emotional intimacy

* Knowledge of how to build, sustain and cycle sexual energy

* Healing from fears, hurts and patterns stored within the body

* Improved relation to self and others

* Exploration of the mind-body-spirit connection

* Understanding of the emotional and/or physical intimate responses, most commonly as these change throughout life – as we age, as we experience the effects of surgeries, medications and health challenges

* And much, much more…

It is my delight to be a witness, a guide and a muse. Let me inspire you, challenge you, walk with you, love you, coax you, play with you! Let us explore how to connect, how to be fully embodied, our human potential and the power inherent in erotic living. Whatever your desire for our time, please share so that I may hold your intention as I work and play!

On the Offerings pages you will find more information about what to expect when sharing time with me.

Where?

Take a vacation without leaving the city! I have beautiful studios in both Seattle, WA and Portland, OR. Each has an adult playroom, a massage room, a large soaking tub, and a shower in the fully stocked bathroom. In addition, the retreat in Portland has a fireplace to curl up in front of on cold evenings, a BBQ and a fire-pit in the private garden. Out-call and travel are available only for those friends I know well. I visit the east coast twice each year (spring and fall) and I travel to a variety of other cities for workshops and conferences. Please see my “Specials” page and my calendar for details. Meetings are available anywhere in the world! Please visit the “Intensives & Vacations” page for more information.

Allergies? An elderly cat lives in the Seattle studio and my little doxie-terrier travels to Portland with me.

When?

While I try to be flexible I limit the number of days that I am available and typically meet just one friend on any day.

I can meet as early as 10am or as late as 8pm, by midnight I begin to fade.

Please allow a minimum of 48 hours notice to help coordinate our calendars and to verify references.

Important Notice and Disclaimer

My work does not cure ailments.

Sensual healing is for the purpose of educating and assisting you in finding harmony, the state where the wisdom of your own body may be called upon to improve well-being. This is not a substitute for medical treatment. Please consult your therapist or physician if you have physiological or psychological concerns and let me know if you are undergoing any type of treatment. I will still be happy to work with you, however I must know of pre-existing issues.

My work is not massage.

Massage is a health care practice licensed and regulated by individual states.

Sessions are not for the purpose of sexual gratification.

If you seek sexual gratification and pure entertainment, save yourself investing in my fee and search elsewhere.

I urge you to be informed and active in politics.

There are many individuals and organized groups supporting legislation which denies your right to privacy, supports persecution and prosecution of consensual crimes and harms your higher right to a strong and healthy sexual identity. Please exercise your constitutional right to use your voice and your vote to bring sanity to public policy.